Currently, I'm waiting for a text back from Mr. Taurus (he won't be able to see it until later, though)...Being a mostly organized person, I would like to keep my feelings "in check" and certainly make sure that if I am feeling this way for someone, that they feel the same.
Hopefully, we'd still be friends either way...I'd very much miss talking to him if things become awkward...
Oh dear, now I'm having second thoughts...
For now, I'll retire to listening to music while doing an assignment.
Showing posts with label Trust Issues. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Trust Issues. Show all posts
23 February 2016
16 January 2015
PSA
Hello everyone!
I just wanted to say that if you know someone that is a Virgo [well, anyone, but I'm talking about Virgos especially from my own experiences], please, please, please be kind and caring to them and don't be so harsh or point out their problems and laugh jokingly.
They may not seem like it but Virgos are extremely sensitive, even though they seem quite exact and have a cool or laid-back demeanor. Let's just say that a little thing like "You look like you walked through a windstorm" could translate to them as "You look horrible and you really shouldn't show your face looking like this". This might not be how all Virgos are like, but this is how I am like and how my boyfriend is like, however he is so hard on himself that he'll hit himself and put himself down constantly for doing something the wrong way.
And especially don't tell them that they aren't good enough or that they aren't [fill-in-the-blank] enough. For all you know, they could already be torn up inside.
And people wonder why some Virgos shy away from others rather than be welcoming.
I just wanted to say that if you know someone that is a Virgo [well, anyone, but I'm talking about Virgos especially from my own experiences], please, please, please be kind and caring to them and don't be so harsh or point out their problems and laugh jokingly.
They may not seem like it but Virgos are extremely sensitive, even though they seem quite exact and have a cool or laid-back demeanor. Let's just say that a little thing like "You look like you walked through a windstorm" could translate to them as "You look horrible and you really shouldn't show your face looking like this". This might not be how all Virgos are like, but this is how I am like and how my boyfriend is like, however he is so hard on himself that he'll hit himself and put himself down constantly for doing something the wrong way.
And especially don't tell them that they aren't good enough or that they aren't [fill-in-the-blank] enough. For all you know, they could already be torn up inside.
And people wonder why some Virgos shy away from others rather than be welcoming.
02 April 2014
Hm~ [aka, more news about Mr. Aquarius...]
So, I recently found out something about Mr. Aquarius. My friend had over-heard him talking with a friend during classes and I was the "subject" of it [as I had attended Rifle Team practice on Monday]. He [Mr. A] seemed worried as how the conversation went and with my friend's perception of it, and she also said that when they were talking, his friend had said "your girlfriend showed up" [hahaha], though he was confused [as he is single] until his friend said "[insert my last name here], you know, the you like."
Further more, even as I believed that it was some sort of cruel April Fools trick [I am not very fond of that *holiday*], Mr. Aquarius and I were talking before the end of school and he brought up that he had heard from a friend that I attended a Rifle Team meet when the instructor was yelling [actually, he was using a very quiet tone. Very scary, no kidding], and asked me about it.
So, HAHAHA.
Take that, doubts!
Further more, even as I believed that it was some sort of cruel April Fools trick [I am not very fond of that *holiday*], Mr. Aquarius and I were talking before the end of school and he brought up that he had heard from a friend that I attended a Rifle Team meet when the instructor was yelling [actually, he was using a very quiet tone. Very scary, no kidding], and asked me about it.
So, HAHAHA.
Take that, doubts!
23 March 2014
Trust Issues
Ever since I had my first "relationship", I've found that trust shouldn't be given out so easily as I do. Even now, although it has been about two years since I broke up with my first "boyfriend", I still am having trouble trusting Mr. Aquarius, who is just so sweet and sincere.
As much as I don't want to trust people, it hurts because I am the type of person who wants to completely trust everyone and help everyone, not push people away because of fears resulting from someone who never cared. I find myself constantly apologizing for making these false assumptions that people want to emotionally hurt me, even lie to me. I feel that this makes me a bigger burden than I already am sometimes, and I feel like I'm always pestering someone when I talk, chat, or even text them.
Now, turning this into a Virgo post.
Virgos tend to be in the partially paranoid to the "mental disoder" type of paranoid range. Going off on this, many Virgoans are afraid of showing any more emotion than what is needed [also, this is for practicality], as they may believe that by letting go of their emotions that they would be subjected to harsh opinions, hatred, or even things like being annoying. Virgos have a calm, collected surface paired up with this underlying fear of rejection, which may make it harder to tell whether or not they truly are afraid, or if this [the feeling that they would be rejected, et cetera] is actually a fact. Virgos, unlike Pisces, tend to test the waters before allowing themselves to do certian things, and that includes relationships. If the waters somehow pose a threat, they will immediately withdrawl and stay on the safety of the land.
Virgos are natural worriers who secretly want to feel appreciated, needed, and loved. They crave this and they look for this in a lover, too.
As much as I don't want to trust people, it hurts because I am the type of person who wants to completely trust everyone and help everyone, not push people away because of fears resulting from someone who never cared. I find myself constantly apologizing for making these false assumptions that people want to emotionally hurt me, even lie to me. I feel that this makes me a bigger burden than I already am sometimes, and I feel like I'm always pestering someone when I talk, chat, or even text them.
Now, turning this into a Virgo post.
Virgos tend to be in the partially paranoid to the "mental disoder" type of paranoid range. Going off on this, many Virgoans are afraid of showing any more emotion than what is needed [also, this is for practicality], as they may believe that by letting go of their emotions that they would be subjected to harsh opinions, hatred, or even things like being annoying. Virgos have a calm, collected surface paired up with this underlying fear of rejection, which may make it harder to tell whether or not they truly are afraid, or if this [the feeling that they would be rejected, et cetera] is actually a fact. Virgos, unlike Pisces, tend to test the waters before allowing themselves to do certian things, and that includes relationships. If the waters somehow pose a threat, they will immediately withdrawl and stay on the safety of the land.
Virgos are natural worriers who secretly want to feel appreciated, needed, and loved. They crave this and they look for this in a lover, too.
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